Can my life be simple again, yes!
Here are the steps you need to take.,
When we were young life was easier, right?
I know, sometimes it seems that way. But the truth is, life is
still easy. It always will be. The only difference is we’re older, and
the older we get, the more we complicate things for ourselves.
You see, when we were young we saw the world
through simple, hopeful eyes. We knew what we wanted and we had no biases
or concealed agendas. We liked people who smiled. We avoided people
who frowned. We ate when we were hungry, drank when we were thirsty, and
slept when we were tired.
As we grew older our minds became gradually
disillusioned by negative external influences. At some point we began to
hesitate and question our instincts. When a new obstacle or growing pain
arose, we stumbled and fell down. This happened several times.
Eventually, we decided we didn’t want to fall again, but rather than solving the
problem that caused us to fall, we avoided it all together.
As a result, we ate comfort food and drank
alcohol to numb our wounds and fill our voids. We worked late nights on
purpose to avoid unresolved conflicts at home. We started holding
grudges, playing mind games, and subtly deceiving others and ourselves to get
ahead. And when it didn’t work out, we lived above our means, bought
things we didn’t need, and ate and drank some more just to make ourselves feel
better again.
Over the course of time, we made our lives
more and more difficult, and we started losing touch with who we really are and
what we really need.
To make life easy and simple again, here are 52
ways to do just that:
1. Don’t try
to read other people’s minds. Don’t make other people try to read
yours. Communicate.
2. Be polite,
but don’t try to be friends with everyone around you. Instead, spend time
nurturing your relationships with the people who matter most to you.
3. Live below your
means. Don’t buy stuff you don’t need. Always sleep on big
purchases. Create a budget and savings plan and stick to both of them.
4. Get enough sleep every
night. An exhausted mind is rarely productive.
5. Get up 30 minutes
earlier so you don’t have to rush around like a mad man. That 30 minutes
will help you avoid speeding tickets, tardiness, and other unnecessary
headaches.
6. Get off your high horse,
talk it out, shake hands or hug, and move on.
7. Don’t waste your time on
jealously. The only person you’re competing against is yourself.
8. Surround yourself with
people who fill your gaps. Let them do the stuff they’re better at so you
can do the stuff you’re better at.
9. Organize your living space
and working space.
10.
Get rid of stuff you don’t use.
11.Ask someone if you aren’t
sure.
12.
Spend a little time now learning a time-saving trick or shortcut
that you can use over and over again in the future.
13.
Don’t try to please everyone. Just do what you know is
right.
14.
Don’t drink alcohol or consume recreational drugs when you’re mad
or sad. Take a jog instead.
15.
Be sure to pay your bills on time.
16.
Fill up your gas tank on the way home, not in the morning when
you’re in a hurry.
17.
Use technology to automate tasks.
18.
Handle important two-minute tasks immediately.
19.
Relocate closer to your place of employment.
20. Do not take what does not belong to you (Do not steal)
21.
Always be honest with yourself and others.
22.
Say “I love you” to your loved ones as often as possible.
23.
Single-task. Do one thing at a time and give it all you got.
24.
Finish one project before you start another.
25.
Be yourself.
26.
When traveling, pack light. Don’t bring it unless you
absolutely must.
27.
Clean up after yourself. Don’t put it off until later.
28.
Learn to cook, and cook.
29.
Make a weekly (healthy) menu, and shop for only the items you
need.
30.
Consider buying and cooking food in bulk. If you make a
large portion of something on Sunday, you can eat leftovers several times
during the week without spending more time cooking.
31.
Stay out of other people’s drama. And don’t needlessly create
your own.
32.
Buy things with cash.
33.
Maintain your car, home, and other personal belongings you rely
on.
34.
Smile often, even to complete strangers.
35.
If you hate doing it, stop it.
36.
Treat everyone with the same level of respect you would give to
your grandfather and the same level of patience you would have with your baby
brother.
37.
Apologize when you should.
38.
Write things down.
39.
Be curious. Don’t be scared to learn something new.
40. However
good or bad a situation is now, it will change. Accept this simple fact.
- Let
go of things you can’t change. Concentrate on things you can.
- Find
hard work you actually enjoy doing.
- Realize
that the harder you work, the luckier you will become.
- Follow
your heart. Don’t waste your life fulfilling someone else’s dreams
and desires.
- Set
priorities for yourself and act accordingly.
- Take
it slow and add up all your small victories.
- However
good or bad a situation is now, it will change. Accept this simple
fact.
- Excel
at what you do. Otherwise you’ll just frustrate yourself.
- Mature,
but don’t grow up too fast.
- Realize
that you’re never quite as right as you think you are.
- Build
something or do something that makes you proud.
- Make
mistakes, learn from them, laugh about them, and move along.